I’d been staying with some friends
– the Spinellis – in their home in Ohio when a visitor came through. The Spinellis live in a mobile home, and this visitor was traveling in some sort of contraption
where he had a very small home perched in the back of his truck. He sat with us
out front and we chatted for a long time before I figured out he was John
Steinbeck. I was excited to meet a writer I so admired in person, but I didn’t
let on – I didn’t want to embarrass him. In any case, we had an interesting
conversation.
Mr. Steinbeck was asking the
Spinellis about what it’s like to live in a mobile home, and if they feel
unrooted because they can move whenever they want to. The Spinellis were saying
that they thought it was overrated to be rooted to a place – that it’s better
to be free than to be rooted. I can see where they’re coming from. Of course I
know the pull of the road; that’s why I’ve been traveling all this time. But at
the same time, I feel more comfortable traveling knowing I have a home to
return to. I think my roots are what allow me to travel so easily. And I
disagree with the idea that Americans have always been unrooted. While
pioneers, say, weren’t tied to a specific place, they were rooted to a group of
other people. The same goes for
hunter-gatherer groups, and other nomads – when people habitually travel, they
give up their ties to a specific place, but never their ties to their
community. To me, this is the crux of rootedness in the first place. So if the
Spinellis have a group of people they feel connected to, I don’t think they are
unrooted at all, even if they have the freedom to move around. The problem, in
my opinion, and maybe the problem that Mr. Steinbeck was worried about, is when
people stop feeling rooted to other people. I think it’s possible to be happy
without any ties to geography, but I don’t think it’s possible to be happy
without feeling a connection to a community.
That being said, though, I left the
Spinellis the next day and continued on my way. I love to connect with old
friends and meet new people, but I also love to be on the road. Mr. Steinbeck
sure gave me a lot to think about as I drove on.
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